From zoos and volunteering to funerals

From zoos and volunteering to funerals

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So yesterday was a wild and crazy fun day at the zoo, this morning will be a happy time with friends volunteering at the Attic, and then this afternoon providing music for a funeral.  One thing being a minister’s wife and a musician does is keep living, really living , in perspective.  We all ride on through this up and down roller coaster of life until the day our earthly ride is over.

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The Dash

By Linda Ellis

I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend.

He referred to the dates on her tombstone from the beginning…to the end.

He noted that first came the date of her birth and spoke of the following date with tears,

But he said what mattered most of all was the dash between those years.


For that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth

And now only those who love her know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own,the cars…the house…the cash.

What matters is how we live and love and how we spend our dash.


So think about this long and hard; Are there things you’d like to change?

For you never know how much time is left that can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough to consider what’s true and real

And always try to understand the way other people feel.


And be less quick to anger and show appreciation more

And love the people in our lives like we never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile…

Remembering that this special dash might only last a little while.


So when your eulogy is read with your life’s actions to rehash

Would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent your dash?

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Dashing off into another day of this and that.  Peace to you and yours.  deb


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